May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.
– Romans 15:13
Many long for the happy go lucky, not a care in the world, everything is copasetic view of the world. Is this a reality or just a pipedream? The advertising machine that drives our materialistic fetish with things seeks to convince it is. And the marketing business is well oiled and effective. We are often told that we deserve this or that and if we take the time to read between the lines, the implication is that their product will bring happiness into our lives. And don’t we all deserve to be happy after all?
It is dangerous to think we can be happy all the time. It can be deadly (spiritually as well as emotionally or physically) to prioritize happiness in our life. When we focus on seeking what makes us happy, the disappointment and letdown becomes immense. What becomes glaringly problematic is the everchanging and subjective nature of happiness. What may make one person happy is not the same thing that makes others happy. The result of this ever changing idea of happiness is capitalized by consumer marketing and social media influencers. The ugly reality is that they are attempting to sell you on their unattainable product of happiness.
Joy on the other hand is vastly different from happiness. While happiness is an emotional response, joy is founded in an identity in Christ. Joy in the Lord is rooted in the comfort of knowing Jesus and living within His care and authority. To experience joy is much different than seeking emotional gratification through life’s circumstances.
Joy enables us to celebrate Christ, to endure pain, agony, trials and tribulations, to extend compassion, to acknowledge the greatness of God and to pick up and carry our cross daily – simultaneously. The reason is, joy is not found in our abilities or what the world has to offer. Contrary to happiness, joy is a component of the Fruit of the Spirit. Because joy is found in the Lord, it is not limited to what the world has to offer.
In Romans, Paul shows that joy and peace come from believing in Christ who encompasses hope. It should not be hard for us to see the connection between joy, peace and hope, even in the darkest of valleys as well as the highest of mountaintops. Paul goes on to state that this reciprocates through the Holy Spirit, so that we may abound in even more hope. It is a perpetual synergistic cycle.
Through the experience and expression of our faith, the Lord’s joy and peace come into our life. Hope emanates from here and a snowball effect begins to occur in the born again believer. Our joy grows, our peace abounds and our hope overflows, continually as we trust and follow the Lord.
Nothing on this earth can come close to what God can do in our life. Therefore seeking happiness and making an idol will always fail. Happiness has a component in our life like our other emotions like sorrow, anxiety, sadness or surprise. However, just like all our emotions, they are never to drive us, but rather direct us to the loving arms of Jesus.
If you are struggling with the wants and cares of this world, running on the hamster wheel of emotions, never getting anywhere and in fact losing ground, it’s time to simply stop. Move away for your own effort and seek the standards of His Word. Look to the Scriptures and the Holy Spirit to redefine and refine your relationship with Christ.



