Being a visitor has some enticing perks. There is an excitement when visiting somewhere new, experiencing those things that are not within your normal routine. As a visitor, we meet new people that we don’t know and they don’t know us. It feels like we are free from our past, free from responsibility and even free from our reputation. Most of all, it feels like we are free from our mistakes. On the surface, being a visitor can bring a sense of happy and hopeful bliss.